Hello,
How has your Tuesday been?
If you're like me then some days just go by so quickly before you know it the day is over. Today to recharge my batteries I took some time to meditate and find my center. If you are new to meditation then go on YouTube and search out meditation. There are many wonderful resources out there for us. And they're all FREE.
Today I thought I would talk about being OPEN. Sometimes life doesn't always work the way that we dreamed it would be. Often times, our plan B becomes the plan A. What I will share with you today is that Plan B can turn out to be pretty great.
I can see in my life where I have held on so tight to my plan A I wasn't open to well to anything. Not being open means not being in the flow. And we want to be in the flow. We want to feel all the love we can possibly allow. So today we need to BE OPEN.
BE OPEN to the possibilities that the Universe has available to us. BE OPEN to INFINITE POSSIBILITIES. BE OPEN. Let yourself feel hope, optimistic, joy and even love.
Let yourself be in the flow. It means you are expanding and allowing. Trusting that the Universe knows what she is doing and has your back. Being in the flow, trusting the Universe, you can't go wrong. You can achieve your heart's desire.
So BE OPEN. Enjoy your turn on earth. And discover adventure after adventure, That's what living is all about.
Today's Dating Tip: Be brave and be bold. You won't get that partner by sitting at home watching re-runs.
xoxo
m
Tuesday, September 3, 2019
Monday, September 2, 2019
Day 3 Part 2 Maria's Dating 101 - A Meet and Greet
It's me again!
I wanted to share with you that I had my first meet and greet with a man I met on one of the dating apps.
Now if you are like me, you get a little nervous because it's always a little unnerving to meet someone new. It's always best to be smart about the initial meetings. Maybe you will tell a trusted friend or family member. Just remember to tell someone. It wouldn't hurt to carry pepper spray or something you can use to protect yourself. Even better yet, take some self-defense classes.
Ok, now to share what I learned on today's meet and greet.
We met in a very public place. Also a great idea. We had decided to meet for drinks only. I felt good about this since it did not commit me to a long period of time.
First, he hugged me. Now I would have preferred if he asked first, but ok. I don't always getting hugging a stranger, but I went with it.
Second, he did not shut up. Any time I started talking he would always take over. Ugh.
Third, right off the bat he showed me the callouses on his hands. I am sure he was intending to show me how hard working he is. But come on! Don't do this. EVER.
Lastly, he did pay for our drinks. It didn't save the situation. But I was grateful for his generosity.
You can make chemistry. It just happens. What is really funny is that I saw some old friends at the very end and they thought I was with my DAD. Lol. This guy was 10 years older than me.
Well, got the first meet and greet out of the way. On to the next adventure
Thanks for listening!
Enjoy the rest of your evening.
xoxo
m
I wanted to share with you that I had my first meet and greet with a man I met on one of the dating apps.
Now if you are like me, you get a little nervous because it's always a little unnerving to meet someone new. It's always best to be smart about the initial meetings. Maybe you will tell a trusted friend or family member. Just remember to tell someone. It wouldn't hurt to carry pepper spray or something you can use to protect yourself. Even better yet, take some self-defense classes.
Ok, now to share what I learned on today's meet and greet.
We met in a very public place. Also a great idea. We had decided to meet for drinks only. I felt good about this since it did not commit me to a long period of time.
First, he hugged me. Now I would have preferred if he asked first, but ok. I don't always getting hugging a stranger, but I went with it.
Second, he did not shut up. Any time I started talking he would always take over. Ugh.
Third, right off the bat he showed me the callouses on his hands. I am sure he was intending to show me how hard working he is. But come on! Don't do this. EVER.
Lastly, he did pay for our drinks. It didn't save the situation. But I was grateful for his generosity.
You can make chemistry. It just happens. What is really funny is that I saw some old friends at the very end and they thought I was with my DAD. Lol. This guy was 10 years older than me.
Well, got the first meet and greet out of the way. On to the next adventure
Thanks for listening!
Enjoy the rest of your evening.
xoxo
m
Day 3 of Maria's Dating 101 (Know Your Worth)
Happy Labor Day Sweet Ones!
I hope that today is a day of rest for you. We all need some down time from our every day life. If you are working then I hope the day is blessed with only goodness.
Now if you remember from yesterday, we spoke on STAYING the COURSE. How did that feel for you when you were writing? Some times it is difficult to stay focused. We will always have distractions, but when we do, maybe we can glean a piece of knowledge from the distraction and own it as our own.
Today I thought I would share my thoughts and feelings on KNOW YOUR WORTH. You are a beautiful soul. You are meant to be on this earth at this time. You are perfect just as you are. NEVER, and I mean NEVER let another person make you feel less than beautiful. If you do my friends, you are giving your power away and we don't want that.
You have a lot to offer. And I am not just speaking of when you are in a relationship with your partner. I am talking about life. You are created perfectly so you can fulfill the mission you are here for. Sometimes that mission or purpose may take a while, but if you want to know what it is, you need to ask the the BIG GUY (God) or the Universe and if you get still you can discover what that purpose is.
During the dating season of your life, you may come across a lot of toads. Let's face it, we are human and won't be attracted to or perfect for every person we date. THAT'S OK. You will be perfect for the one who is perfect for you. And you know what? You can't rush perfection, so you gotta be patient. Even when it isn't easy. Remember STAY THE COURSE. It can help you here.
Okay, today's writing assignment - I hope by now you are keeping the notebook and pen close by. Writing is good for our souls. Today I am going to ask you to join me in writing about yourself. Write down all the qualities you love about yourself. Now, you are not writing about what you think someone else will think is good, you are writing about YOU. It may be easier to write yourself a love note and tell yourself how much you love You. This is important because when you KNOW YOUR WORTH, you won't settle for crap. You are valuable and you deserve to have someone in your life that sees your value.
Today's dating tip:
Honesty is always the best policy. Even when you think it may hurt someone else's feelings. If you can't be honest, then you need to ask yourself why.
Until next time.
xoxo
m
I hope that today is a day of rest for you. We all need some down time from our every day life. If you are working then I hope the day is blessed with only goodness.
Now if you remember from yesterday, we spoke on STAYING the COURSE. How did that feel for you when you were writing? Some times it is difficult to stay focused. We will always have distractions, but when we do, maybe we can glean a piece of knowledge from the distraction and own it as our own.
Today I thought I would share my thoughts and feelings on KNOW YOUR WORTH. You are a beautiful soul. You are meant to be on this earth at this time. You are perfect just as you are. NEVER, and I mean NEVER let another person make you feel less than beautiful. If you do my friends, you are giving your power away and we don't want that.
You have a lot to offer. And I am not just speaking of when you are in a relationship with your partner. I am talking about life. You are created perfectly so you can fulfill the mission you are here for. Sometimes that mission or purpose may take a while, but if you want to know what it is, you need to ask the the BIG GUY (God) or the Universe and if you get still you can discover what that purpose is.
During the dating season of your life, you may come across a lot of toads. Let's face it, we are human and won't be attracted to or perfect for every person we date. THAT'S OK. You will be perfect for the one who is perfect for you. And you know what? You can't rush perfection, so you gotta be patient. Even when it isn't easy. Remember STAY THE COURSE. It can help you here.
Okay, today's writing assignment - I hope by now you are keeping the notebook and pen close by. Writing is good for our souls. Today I am going to ask you to join me in writing about yourself. Write down all the qualities you love about yourself. Now, you are not writing about what you think someone else will think is good, you are writing about YOU. It may be easier to write yourself a love note and tell yourself how much you love You. This is important because when you KNOW YOUR WORTH, you won't settle for crap. You are valuable and you deserve to have someone in your life that sees your value.
Today's dating tip:
Honesty is always the best policy. Even when you think it may hurt someone else's feelings. If you can't be honest, then you need to ask yourself why.
Until next time.
xoxo
m
Sunday, September 1, 2019
Day 2 of Maria's Dating 101 (Stay the Course)
Hello,
I'm back! How did the writing go? Did you find clarity as the pen touched the paper and the thoughts, feelings and ideas unfolded? Maybe, you felt blocked. I would suggest if you felt any kind of blockages, to write about those and remember to include your feelings as you write. You want to be able to recognize the blocks so you can remove them.
How did taking the selfie go? Did you have fun? If you're like me, it takes a really LONG time to take the perfect selfie. Remember you are publishing this for others to see so you want your selfie to be great. If you had your friend take the selfie, then did you like the picture? Friends are great! Especially when they are supporting you on your adventure.
Today I thought I would talk about "Staying the Course." What does this mean, you ask? I'll share with you what it means for me.
When you are on the dating apps, it's easy to be flattered because someone is finally paying attention to you. Maybe they are flirting with you online. They say all the right things and you begin to feel those warm fuzzy feelings that happen during the beginning stages of dating.
Those feelings are great, because it means you are opening up to the possibility that maybe, just maybe there is someone out there in this great big Universe that is perfect for you.
I will suggest you go back to the notebook and re-read what you wrote. Before you get in too deep or dive right into a situation with another person, take a look at what you wrote. I know for me, this grounds me back into reality and after being reminded of what I really want I can continue forward.
There will be many, many distractions as you embark of this adventure. That's normal. It's up to you to decided to take a detour or STAY THE COURSE. The easier path will always be to follow the diversions because they are easy and fun. Staying grounded in what you want, well that takes courage and determination.
As always, there are no right or wrong answers. Only you know what is best for you. If you take the detours you can always come back to the path you truly want. Staying the Course, being steady in what you want will always move you closer to the end results.
Today's writing assignment - remember the notebook and pen. Go find them and find the very best spot to write in and sit down. Close your eyes, get quiet and take several deep breaths and begin to write. We are going to write about what it feels like to STAY THE COURSE. What does it smell like? What does it feel like? What do you look like? What does the end result look like? Keep writing. Let everything come out. The creative juices are flowing. You got this!
I hope that the rest of your day is blessed and filled with all the goodness you will allow. Here is today's dating tip:
Always be true to yourself. You're beautiful and created just as you are suppose to be. That perfect partner is out there. Believe in You.
xoxo
m
I'm back! How did the writing go? Did you find clarity as the pen touched the paper and the thoughts, feelings and ideas unfolded? Maybe, you felt blocked. I would suggest if you felt any kind of blockages, to write about those and remember to include your feelings as you write. You want to be able to recognize the blocks so you can remove them.
How did taking the selfie go? Did you have fun? If you're like me, it takes a really LONG time to take the perfect selfie. Remember you are publishing this for others to see so you want your selfie to be great. If you had your friend take the selfie, then did you like the picture? Friends are great! Especially when they are supporting you on your adventure.
Today I thought I would talk about "Staying the Course." What does this mean, you ask? I'll share with you what it means for me.
When you are on the dating apps, it's easy to be flattered because someone is finally paying attention to you. Maybe they are flirting with you online. They say all the right things and you begin to feel those warm fuzzy feelings that happen during the beginning stages of dating.
Those feelings are great, because it means you are opening up to the possibility that maybe, just maybe there is someone out there in this great big Universe that is perfect for you.
I will suggest you go back to the notebook and re-read what you wrote. Before you get in too deep or dive right into a situation with another person, take a look at what you wrote. I know for me, this grounds me back into reality and after being reminded of what I really want I can continue forward.
There will be many, many distractions as you embark of this adventure. That's normal. It's up to you to decided to take a detour or STAY THE COURSE. The easier path will always be to follow the diversions because they are easy and fun. Staying grounded in what you want, well that takes courage and determination.
As always, there are no right or wrong answers. Only you know what is best for you. If you take the detours you can always come back to the path you truly want. Staying the Course, being steady in what you want will always move you closer to the end results.
Today's writing assignment - remember the notebook and pen. Go find them and find the very best spot to write in and sit down. Close your eyes, get quiet and take several deep breaths and begin to write. We are going to write about what it feels like to STAY THE COURSE. What does it smell like? What does it feel like? What do you look like? What does the end result look like? Keep writing. Let everything come out. The creative juices are flowing. You got this!
I hope that the rest of your day is blessed and filled with all the goodness you will allow. Here is today's dating tip:
Always be true to yourself. You're beautiful and created just as you are suppose to be. That perfect partner is out there. Believe in You.
xoxo
m
Saturday, August 31, 2019
Day 1 of Maria's dating 101
Why Hello there!
How are YOU? Yes, I am really asking and I want to hear.
I wanted to take some time and share what's been going on with me these days. I've decided to join the online dating community and open my heart to the possibility of finding love once again.
This time I thought I would share my journey with you.
As of today I have signed up for Match.com and Zoosk. Both online dating apps I have paid the monthly membership fee. Now keep in mind Match.com or Zoosk has not asked me to represent or promote either one of their apps. My experiences are my own.
So if you are like me and looking for love in 2019 how and where do you start? For most of us 40 something ladies it isn't like when we were teenagers and the guy sent us a note or fumbled through asking us out. It's kinda tricky to navigate. Do I have your interest peaked yet? I sure hope so. Keep reading to find out what adventures I am embarking on as I seek the kind of love that will last long into my 80s and 90s.
Ok, let's get down to business. The first question you need to ask yourself if you are single and seeking love is: "What is it I really want." You need to be very clear on this question. If you don't know what you want you will only attract all kinds of crazy. This would be a great time for you to pause and get out that dusty old notebook and start writing. Yes, I said writing. Do you own a pen? If not, go out and get a spiral ringed notebook and a pen. Make sure to get a pen you like because you will be doing a lot of writing while you are with me on this adventure. I buy a Mead notebook and use a purple pen because it makes me smile.
I'd take about 15-30 minutes and start writing what it feels like to have the type of relationship you are seeking. Since we are all individuals this is going to be quite different for each of us. At 47 years old I know that I want the kind of man I can talk to for the rest of my life. I will share more about what I want as we go along. For now, start writing so you can figure out what you want in the partner you are seeking. Remember there are no right or wrong answers. By writing out your feelings you have opened up your creative juices and become more clear on what you are truly seeking.
If you are still writing and 30 minutes has passed, no worries! Keep writing it means you are on FIRE. You got this and have fun writing.
I'm going to remind you that there are no right or wrong answers here. If you pick up the notebook tomorrow and find that what you wrote today isn't what you want, don't through it away but build upon and continue writing.
Well, now that we are started, I am going to leave you to enjoy the rest of your Saturday. Here's my first dating tip:
You're going to need a picture of yourself so if you are great at taking selfies, you're all set. If you need some help, then find a friend to take a picture of you. We want to see that gorgeous face of yours.
Talk to you next time!
m
How are YOU? Yes, I am really asking and I want to hear.
I wanted to take some time and share what's been going on with me these days. I've decided to join the online dating community and open my heart to the possibility of finding love once again.
This time I thought I would share my journey with you.
As of today I have signed up for Match.com and Zoosk. Both online dating apps I have paid the monthly membership fee. Now keep in mind Match.com or Zoosk has not asked me to represent or promote either one of their apps. My experiences are my own.
So if you are like me and looking for love in 2019 how and where do you start? For most of us 40 something ladies it isn't like when we were teenagers and the guy sent us a note or fumbled through asking us out. It's kinda tricky to navigate. Do I have your interest peaked yet? I sure hope so. Keep reading to find out what adventures I am embarking on as I seek the kind of love that will last long into my 80s and 90s.
Ok, let's get down to business. The first question you need to ask yourself if you are single and seeking love is: "What is it I really want." You need to be very clear on this question. If you don't know what you want you will only attract all kinds of crazy. This would be a great time for you to pause and get out that dusty old notebook and start writing. Yes, I said writing. Do you own a pen? If not, go out and get a spiral ringed notebook and a pen. Make sure to get a pen you like because you will be doing a lot of writing while you are with me on this adventure. I buy a Mead notebook and use a purple pen because it makes me smile.
I'd take about 15-30 minutes and start writing what it feels like to have the type of relationship you are seeking. Since we are all individuals this is going to be quite different for each of us. At 47 years old I know that I want the kind of man I can talk to for the rest of my life. I will share more about what I want as we go along. For now, start writing so you can figure out what you want in the partner you are seeking. Remember there are no right or wrong answers. By writing out your feelings you have opened up your creative juices and become more clear on what you are truly seeking.
If you are still writing and 30 minutes has passed, no worries! Keep writing it means you are on FIRE. You got this and have fun writing.
I'm going to remind you that there are no right or wrong answers here. If you pick up the notebook tomorrow and find that what you wrote today isn't what you want, don't through it away but build upon and continue writing.
Well, now that we are started, I am going to leave you to enjoy the rest of your Saturday. Here's my first dating tip:
You're going to need a picture of yourself so if you are great at taking selfies, you're all set. If you need some help, then find a friend to take a picture of you. We want to see that gorgeous face of yours.
Talk to you next time!
m
Sunday, November 8, 2015
Good Morning Dearhearts!
Gosh its been a while since I wrote last. We are near the end of 2015 and all I can say is WOW! It has been quite the year. And, this morning I'm not even quite sure where to start to share how the 2nd half of 2015 has unfolded for me in the world of Abundant Blessings.
How about those two words "ABUNDANT BLESSINGS?" Indeed I can say I AM Abundantly Blessed. Always I feel taken care of - even when I am feeling low energy. I know that Spirit is there to show me how to pick myself back up and continue on my path.
So, what is my path? I remember almost 6 years ago when I was experimenting with the idea of creating a business name. I took some time and ABUNDANT BLESSINGS HEALTH AND WELLNESS LLC unfolded for me.
Abundant Blessings means many things to me: sharing how essential oils and oily products may be a great additional to not only my life, my fur babes lives and also the lives of all those who are ready to experiment with something new. Abundant Blessings also means teaching others how to use oils in making homemade products. Well, at least giving others a place and the tools to get together with like-minded others and make homemade products. Another aspect of Abundant Blessings is to offer people an opportunity to experience a Healing Touch or Raindrop session. This year I added the MNA Superfood Smoothies to the world of Abundant Blessings.
So what am I saying here? In the beginning when Abundant Blessings was starting I was working full time and then for about a year I experimented with focusing on the business full time. I quickly learned that there were many aspects I missed about being out in the work force. SO, I went back to work for a company which I am enjoying a great deal. Does this mean I am giving up or letting go of my Dream?
Absolutely NOT! What Spirit and the Universe have shown me this year along with many other lessons is to trust them. Each day I do my BEST to connect with Spirit during my walks or in meditation so I know what is best for me and the babes to LIVE THE BLESSED LIFE. That really is the end goal for me.
Does it look like I thought it would? Not really. And you want to know what? I'm really happy this morning. I have a warm home to live in. I have food to keep me moving forward. I have my health and my babes are healthy. I could keep going on with the list and my intention here is that you see what I am sharing with you. I AM BLESSED.
So, when you find your dream and it turns in a different direction my Dearhearts - SEE the unlimited possibilities the new direction has in store for you. Be excited and open your heart to all the new and happy energy this new direction may give you.
YOU ARE LOVED! YOU MATTER! YOU GOT THIS!
Have a spectacular week and May your Blessings be Abundant!
xoxo
Maria
Gosh its been a while since I wrote last. We are near the end of 2015 and all I can say is WOW! It has been quite the year. And, this morning I'm not even quite sure where to start to share how the 2nd half of 2015 has unfolded for me in the world of Abundant Blessings.
How about those two words "ABUNDANT BLESSINGS?" Indeed I can say I AM Abundantly Blessed. Always I feel taken care of - even when I am feeling low energy. I know that Spirit is there to show me how to pick myself back up and continue on my path.
So, what is my path? I remember almost 6 years ago when I was experimenting with the idea of creating a business name. I took some time and ABUNDANT BLESSINGS HEALTH AND WELLNESS LLC unfolded for me.
Abundant Blessings means many things to me: sharing how essential oils and oily products may be a great additional to not only my life, my fur babes lives and also the lives of all those who are ready to experiment with something new. Abundant Blessings also means teaching others how to use oils in making homemade products. Well, at least giving others a place and the tools to get together with like-minded others and make homemade products. Another aspect of Abundant Blessings is to offer people an opportunity to experience a Healing Touch or Raindrop session. This year I added the MNA Superfood Smoothies to the world of Abundant Blessings.
So what am I saying here? In the beginning when Abundant Blessings was starting I was working full time and then for about a year I experimented with focusing on the business full time. I quickly learned that there were many aspects I missed about being out in the work force. SO, I went back to work for a company which I am enjoying a great deal. Does this mean I am giving up or letting go of my Dream?
Absolutely NOT! What Spirit and the Universe have shown me this year along with many other lessons is to trust them. Each day I do my BEST to connect with Spirit during my walks or in meditation so I know what is best for me and the babes to LIVE THE BLESSED LIFE. That really is the end goal for me.
Does it look like I thought it would? Not really. And you want to know what? I'm really happy this morning. I have a warm home to live in. I have food to keep me moving forward. I have my health and my babes are healthy. I could keep going on with the list and my intention here is that you see what I am sharing with you. I AM BLESSED.
So, when you find your dream and it turns in a different direction my Dearhearts - SEE the unlimited possibilities the new direction has in store for you. Be excited and open your heart to all the new and happy energy this new direction may give you.
YOU ARE LOVED! YOU MATTER! YOU GOT THIS!
Have a spectacular week and May your Blessings be Abundant!
xoxo
Maria
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Good Morning and Happy Sunday Dearhearts! How have you been this week? What has been unfolding in your own lives as you continue on your path? Is it everything you dreamed it would be? I have found lately that what I thought would be my goal has shifted. I find myself in a place of re-discovery. Now, at one time in my life I would have been fearful of this change in direction in my life. However, today I can say I wake up and feel excited and filled with wonder.
There are those of us who like life to stay the same because we know what to expect. When change arrives in our lives it creates anxiety or stress because it is unfamiliar. Today I would encourage you to come along with me on this journey of re-discovery. Let's make it exciting and fun. Let's make every moment count while we are moving on our journey.
Life may throw us surprises and what we thought our dreams were or are may change. I'm here to share with you that all of that is PERFECT. Think about it. If it wasn't suppose to happen then it wouldn't right? So, the flip side of that is true. If it is happening right now to you - it is suppose to happen. That being said, let's just roll with it. Like the waves on the ocean, it is much easier to go with the flow of the water than against it.
I'm inviting you to be BRAVE. Smile, laugh and know that there is a power far larger than we could ever imagine guiding us as we move through our lives. Worry, fear and doubt only hold us back. Don't even entertain those feelings. That's easy, I'm inviting you to be filled with faith, open your heart and mind to the very possibility that you are here on this earth to do something GREAT! Now go out and play, experiment and discover your greatness today!
Make sure to share with us what is unfolding in your GREAT, MARVELOUS AND EXCITING story you are embarking on. We want to hear and CELEBRATE in your SUCCESS!
Until next time :)
May your Blessings be Abundant and may your path be filled with Unlimited Potential.
Maria
Pictured below is some Pretty from my flower Gardens to remind you how Beautiful you are.
There are those of us who like life to stay the same because we know what to expect. When change arrives in our lives it creates anxiety or stress because it is unfamiliar. Today I would encourage you to come along with me on this journey of re-discovery. Let's make it exciting and fun. Let's make every moment count while we are moving on our journey.
Life may throw us surprises and what we thought our dreams were or are may change. I'm here to share with you that all of that is PERFECT. Think about it. If it wasn't suppose to happen then it wouldn't right? So, the flip side of that is true. If it is happening right now to you - it is suppose to happen. That being said, let's just roll with it. Like the waves on the ocean, it is much easier to go with the flow of the water than against it.
I'm inviting you to be BRAVE. Smile, laugh and know that there is a power far larger than we could ever imagine guiding us as we move through our lives. Worry, fear and doubt only hold us back. Don't even entertain those feelings. That's easy, I'm inviting you to be filled with faith, open your heart and mind to the very possibility that you are here on this earth to do something GREAT! Now go out and play, experiment and discover your greatness today!
Make sure to share with us what is unfolding in your GREAT, MARVELOUS AND EXCITING story you are embarking on. We want to hear and CELEBRATE in your SUCCESS!
Until next time :)
May your Blessings be Abundant and may your path be filled with Unlimited Potential.
Maria
Pictured below is some Pretty from my flower Gardens to remind you how Beautiful you are.
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